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Same-sex “marriage” and FIC Action’s Let the People Decide press conference were widely covered by local media this week. You can read the Courant’s story here, the Waterbury Republican-American here, the Associated Press here, the New London Day here, the Stamford Advocate here, the Manchester Journal Inquirer here, and the Meriden Record-Journal here.

During the Q and A the media appeared to subject Brian’s message to far greater scrutiny than that of our opponents–which he handled with his usual aplomb. But, with rare exceptions, coverage of Wednesday’s dueling press conferences was notably balanced. Some of you have noticed that our opponents got the larger photo on the Courant’s front page. True, but we are pleased to see the paper put Brian on the front page for the first time in the all the years we’ve been doing this. (And the photographer, Shana Surek, does good work. I don’t think she was the one who decided on the relative size of the photos.)

The Stamford Advocate, which does some of the best reporting on this topic, put appropriately neutral quotes around “marriage equality,”–our opponents’ preferred buzzphrase–and noted the 26 House Democrats who voted against civil unions in 2005. And the AP took the time to get another quote from the governor’s office as to her intentions:

A spokesman for Republican Gov. M. Jodi Rell, who signed the civil unions law, said Wednesday that she would veto a gay marriage bill.

“She continues to believe that marriage is between a man and a woman,” spokesman Christopher Cooper said. “She believes that the civil unions law … is the way to go with this.”

Of all the print media, only the Journal Inquirer wrote its story without any reference to FIC. But except for the JI, the coverage was fair and balanced–and the New London Day in particular stands out for its colorful description of our fearless leader:

Brian S. Brown would like to say he told you so.

The president of the Family Institute of Connecticut was his animated self Wednesday morning, gesturing forcefully with his hands from behind a podium, his voice peaking and diving as he declared that the civil-union bill approved two years ago for same-sex couples was now being used to bring about what he and his organization most fear: full-fledged, state-acknowledged marriage for gay couples.

“They’re using civil unions, and they’re not hiding it, as a tool for their ultimate goal, which is full gay marriage,” Brown said only minutes before his opponents convened across the hall to announce just that — a push to permit same-sex couples to be legally married in Connecticut.

I was at our opponents’ press conference too. We’ll be responding to their arguments in the coming days and weeks. But what especially jumped out at me was the claim by Lawlor and McDonald that their re-elections demonstrate public support for same-sex “marriage.” McDonald claimed same-sex “marriage” was “front and center” in his election and that his opponent, Rick Giordano “didn’t want to talk about anything else.”

That’s interesting, because during the campaign the Left was complaining about just the opposite: that Giordano and other pro-family candidates were “stealth” candidates who were not being up front about their opposition to same-sex “marriage.” Here’s an excerpt from the New Haven Advocate’s October “Closet Conservatives” article:

But Giordano’s own eight-minute biographical video, posted on the campaign Web site, makes no mention of gay marriage, abortion or other bedrock values of the Family Institute. Instead, Giordano talks about lowering taxes, improving transportation and making health care flexible. The only hint of his conservative leaning whatsoever is a vague reference to his opponent’s “personal agenda.”

So the Left tells us during the campaign that Rick was a “stealth” candidate who won’t discuss gay marriage and then, after he loses, they claim that he didn’t want to talk about anything else. This is the sort of hypocrisy that the MSM will never call them on.

Nor, for that matter, was McDonald open with his constituents during the campaign about his support for same-sex “marriage.” Here’s an excerpt from an Oct. 5th Stamford Advocate article on a debate between McDonald and Giordano:

McDonald made a point of saying he is proud to support stem cell research and voted for a bill that would have required all hospitals to dispense emergency contraceptives, also known as Plan B or the morning after pill, to rape victims. He said he was proud to author a gun-control bill that would have required gun owners to report lost or stolen weapons within 72 hours or face criminal charges. He said he is opposed to school vouchers. He accused Giordano of being aligned with a “radical, conservative zealot group” and challenged him to give his positions on the same four issues.

Note which issue McDonald does not challenge Rick to give his position on: same-sex “marriage.” Why? Because McDonald knows the public doesn’t support him on it. To now turn around and pretend that this issue cut his way in the last election is a deliberate misreading of the record.

The same holds true of Lawlor, who complained bitterly throughout the 2006 campaign that Dan McCann was discussing everything except same-sex “marriage” but now claims that it was all Dan talked about. Lawlor and McDonald make these false assertions about the electoral politics of same-sex “marriage” because they know the MSM will not call them on it.

One final note: tonight I will be appearing on CPTV’s On the Record show at 9:30 to debate Anne Stanback, head of Love Makes a Family. Anne is always a gracious opponent and I expect you will find our 20 minute discussion to be a little more detailed than the usual soundbites of commercial television.

3 Responses to “Press Conference, Media Coverage and CPTV Tonight”

  1. on 02 Feb 2007 at 1:09 pmaaron silver

    Is marriage a religious institution?

    Maybe I’m just a whiner or overly sensitive, but I feel that I am at times the only gay person that is not comfortable or satisfied by the term “civil union”. To me it feels like a consolation prize given as a means of pacifying gays. I hope that we gay men and woman will stop our belly aching about the issue of “marriage” until our work is done. Whiney or not, I am saddened to see that many gays are willing to accept second class citizenship. Our entire gay civil rights movement that has been courageously fought by a very few, is about equal rights. This of course means marriage as well.
    We should not be satisfied by civil unions. Unions to me are not equal. It is a concilation prize. It’s not about doing the right thing, it’s about politics. Even the politicians that are in favor of calling our civil unions marriage are afraid to speak openly about it, with the exception of a few impassioned politicians that have a strong sense of integrity and also what is right and what is wrong.

    We cannot look to the bible for any answers regarding equal rights. Those laws were written at a different time and for uneducated illiterate people. They were also a very superstitious people that made many of their laws in regards to those superstitions. We therefore cannot be influenced by scripture. We live in a country that has a law of separation between church and state. That’s the wonderful thing about our country.

    Somebody please help me understand why marriage by many is considered a religious institution. For the sake of discussion I would like someone to tell me why atheists are then eligible for marriage? It seems to me that heterosexual marriages are afforded just about any opportunity and environment they choose to take their vows. Even those darned heathens.

    They can choose a church marriage, they can get married underwater, on a mountaintop, by a justice of the peace or even by a ship captain. However, the most romantic and holy place I can imagine to pledge ones vows of love and fidelity, is driving through a drive-in chapel in Las Vegas, as one would order a family meal. I’m sorry, I’m only human and I got a bit choked up when mentioning that. I love happy meals. The best part, no one has to even get out of the car, and the best man and woman are provided for one of the most important events in ones life; holy matrimony. How can one even compete with that kind of service? I think they even change your oil. That may be just hearsay.

    Has it dawned on anyone that the constitution of the United States says very clearly that all people shall be treated as equal? There are no clauses added to that, such as, except gays and African Americans. What was stated in that document then still rings very clear yet today and likely for many years to come. We don’t have to look too awfully far back into our history to find examples of how we ignored the constitution for selfish heterosexual Anglo-Saxon citizens so we could still own people. It wasn’t until the early part of the nineteenth century before woman were allowed to vote. Not so long before that, slavery was legal. It wasn’t until nearly fifty years ago that African Americans weren’t allowed to marry whites. If we are to learn anything from our nations history, we should then know that whenever we veer off from what that beautifully crafted document we call our nations Constitution for whatever convenient reason, it is eventually overturned and changed for reasons of being unfair and not following the principals set forth in that document Back to my original question, I am hoping someone can give me a valid reason to prevent any two people that love each other from having the right to marry. I have heard some reasons that make no sense to me. One being that if gays were allowed to marry it would have the impact of destroying traditional marriage. We only have to look at the statistics of the success of heterosexual marriages to discover that more than half end up in divorce. Gays did not cause that. Fidelity within marriage has a terrible track record as well. Therefore I would truly like to hear some reasonable argument posed that would make sense why gay marriage ought not be allowed. Thank you, Aaron Jason Silver http://www.aaronjasonsilver.com; Fennville, Mi 49408

  2. on 02 Feb 2007 at 8:41 pmModernFemme

    ok Jason, gay “marriage” ought not be allowed because it, by definition, tells “Joe Sixpack” that both genders are not really necessary for raising productive citizens – in time, leading to less marriage and more divorce in general.

  3. on 06 Feb 2007 at 1:15 amTricia

    Mr. Silver will not be satisfied by any short reply, or probably not by any that anyone could give. However, there was an excellent letter to the Connecticut Post published Sunday Feb. 4th, explaining that “Marriage, in any form, is not a true right.” The letter was by James Bair of Ansonia.

    BTW, Mr. Silver, you are wrong in saying of heterosexual marriages that “more than half end up in divorce.”

    Also, “fidelity,” assuming you are speaking of sexual exclusivity, is FAR, FAR, LESS in gay relationships than it is within heterosexual married couples.

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